You know what’s pretty groovy? People are coming out of the woodwork to help me. Being a capable & independent gal before, makes this difference more astounding. (you can ask anyone in my life – I’m fairly stuck on the independence thing. One of the first things I said to my dad, when I was about 2 was: “You’re not the boss of me!”) The other day when walking home from QFC (my main grocery store here, besides TJs, wich I love, but is not very ample or convenient) I was trucking, (only about 4 blocks – usually this would be “ppssssha” – a not think twice commute. There’d be no hesitation. I’ve lived in cities all over the globe for many years & never driven. Maybe that’s why I got into my car accident…just sayin’.) when my neighbor came out of her house, carrying a wheely bag and said: “Would you like this?” I said Yes! Thanking her. She then explained how her friend got it for her after she broke her leg.
I have to say: This is just a very small example. I’ve been gifted money from a family members & an old boss, complimentary yoga classes – (remember, yoga is a great love of mine.) I hurt myself while running an errand for a yoga camp! Redic. I was gifted lodging and support in Cali. (from my greater family members) – we (my mom & I) actually stayed with the same aunt that originally dropped me off at the yoga camp! 🙂 And don’t let me not forget, my parents – my closest allies & therefore the most capable/accommodating helpers, as they know me best. They ensure I have transport to my appointments when beed be, my mom outfitted my kitchen (in the new home) with lots of red 🙂 – my fave color + they moved in all my stuff! I felt very guilty – so used to being a worker bee (and my dad helped me out by clarifying my role – as he worked in construction for many years. “You’re the stupervisor” he said and I indeed found this title quite appropriate. He clarified and comforted me by saying, “Your real job begins, when you unpack.” + my parents emotional support is unparalleled. Therefore, having a beautiful jar in which to house the physically small gifts, feels very appropriate.
I’m always 1 to think of things philosophically, so fair warning. But you know what this experience tells me? People are, in general (there’s always a few bad apples), good & kind.These gifts have certainly made me consider how I can give back now. I volunteered amply in college, but given this new & unique experience, I feel I should do good it. (help others)